.Yet what Astrid doesn't recognize yet is actually a fact that both Ortega and also O'Hara-- that possesses two sons-- may vouch for: The truth that your relationship with your parents improvements as well as grows as you both age, and also ideally right. "Your planet centers around [your kids] when they're infants [as well as] it is actually a lot work however attractive," O'Hara mentions. "Later, you actually overlook that, since after that you can not obtain all of them to perform everything you want them to perform, since they begin creating their own minds, their own opinions." And also ultimately, you find yourself in the spot O'Hara, whose children are in their 20s and also 30s, discovers herself now, able to profit from her little ones. "They are actually simply such trendy young men," she states. "I am actually not their friend, however I really love possessing talks along with them and also getting to know just how they deal with lifestyle.".